Alright Steve, i've got a question. A few pages back you mention 10 sets of 10. I usually do 4 sets, 1st set 12 reps, 2nd 10, 3rd 8, and 4th (if i can muster it ) 6 reps. Each set i up the weight with the last set almost my max limit. I get so fatigued on that last set, that when i cant finish (i dont now nor have i ever had a workout partner btw) I feel pissed at myself for failing. Like a pathetic fucking little girl. I'm not joking, i feel embarrassed of myself. Its been like this on and off for 20 years. The only way i could see me doing 10 sets of 10 would be a way lower weight. What % of my max should i use?
I have a piece of advise for others. Over the years many times has the rest of my life bumped my fitness off the tracks. Just getting burned out with routine, or work, my house, my family, and honestly sometimes my other hobbies. Once its off, its hard to get back on, almost discouraging. But fight through that shit!
Long ago I came to realize, I'll never be Arnold, never. As a young man growing up in the 80's, muscle culture was a huge influence on me and when I learned the truth about my "heroes" taking drugs to look the way they did... I was kinda crushed. Fact is, now I know that when I look into the mirror, I'll honestly never too much more than I am right now. All I can strive for is to build the best me with what I got to work with.
Steve you are in awesome shape by the way. I hope to look that good myself one day.
Since we're showing pics...
Embarrassingly, here's one of me at my absolute worst (my wedding believe it or not) 14 years ago. Obviously my wife saw more in me (thank goodness)
Here's a couple recent shots
That last one was a kissy pic i sent to my wife lol