alright....my mom passed away....

[Sol_Badguy01]

alright. it's not everyday yew guys hear sumthin like this but yeah. she's gone. and i'm gonna find ways to try and vent my sadness so i can keep my mind offa her going away,so...any advice?

 

[Zayon]

Dude, thats depressive

My mom has cancer, is paralyzed and has been for over 10 years. Now it looks bad though since the cancer has come back stronger then before.

 

[Sol_Badguy01]

my mom has....had sickle cell...and her heart couldn't take it..ontop of having chronic lung disease...and they tried to bring her back but it wasn't any good...and the blood kept flowing into her lungs and she passed....

 

[Galford Forever]

I'm sorry to hear that, honestly.

How old are you?

 

[ray_7]

Sorry to hear that.

 

[BryLmoo]

Sol,

Words cannot express my feelings in a situation like this. I am so very sorry for your loss, and hope that somehow, some way...it will make your stronger in the long run.

Things may seem kinda dismal right now but you need to vent AS MUCH AS YOU CAN. If your mad, scream. If your sad, cry. If you wanna break something, break something.

It's not an easy thing to go through man...my father died of a heart attack when I was 15 and I remember finding him with my mom.

Don't give up, and keep active.

BryLMoo@Carolina.rr.com

E-mail me if you wanna talk.

 

[Chip Zanuff]

IM sorry .My Mother Is very sick and She tries to keep going everyday.I pray your mother is not suffering now.Hope the Neo Scene Can help you get through this Tough time.Our Prayers are with you and your family

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[Sol_Badguy01]

goin on 18 in two months...

 

[Plisken]

Originally posted by Sol_Badguy01:
<strong>goin on 18 in two months...</strong><hr></blockquote>

shit dude, i'm 18 in 3 months. I dunno how i'd cope without my mom seeing as i dispise my dad. all my condolences.

[ January 11, 2003: Message edited by: Plisken ]</p>

 

[NeoZ24]

Sorry to hear that

 

[slerch666]

All you can really do is try and remember her (not that THAT would be too difficult). And don't remember her as she was when she was sick, try to remember her being healthy.

Sorry to hear about your loss and best wishes.

I wouldn't even begin to know how to tell you to cope...

 

[Tom]

I'm very sorry about your loss and you have my condolences. BryLmoo is right, if it will help if you can get the sadness/and or anger out of you some how. My regards to you and your family Sol.

 

[k'_127]

<img src="confused.gif" border="0">

 

[chris1]

Oh God..I'm so Sorry..

 

[Gamefan]

I am very sorry to hear that. <img src="graemlins/crying.gif" border="0" alt="[Crying]" />

 

[Pro_Gear]

My sincerest condolences Sol_Badguy01 . Just remember that your mom will ALWAYS be a part of you, and that is how she will live on. She understands you will grieve but I'm sure she doesn't want you to be consumed by it. Live well for her and in rememberance of her my friend...

 

[Kalijiin]

...and what the hell is this doing in neo geo general discussion? <img src="graemlins/spock.gif" border="0" alt="[Spock]" />

 

[MilkManX]

May she rest in peace and good luck to you.

 

[Sol_Badguy01]

Originally posted by Kalijiin:
<strong>...and what the hell is this doing in neo geo general discussion? <img src="graemlins/spock.gif" border="0" alt="[Spock]" /> </strong><hr></blockquote>


yeah...nice to show some people have a heart....i don't know how to deal with this,that's what i am asking of you...should yew have nothing nice to say i wish that you please leave me alone...

 

[Plisken]

Originally posted by Kalijiin:
<strong>...and what the hell is this doing in neo geo general discussion? <img src="graemlins/spock.gif" border="0" alt="[Spock]" /> </strong><hr></blockquote>

...and what the hell is your HEAD doing stuck up your ASS??? <img src="graemlins/angry.gif" border="0" alt="[Angry]" />

 

[RAINBOW PONY]

Pity.

 

[RabbitTroop]

I lost my brother in 2001. At first, it didn't really hit me... Then, I kept having pretty depressing thoughts.... It was tough, but out of it all I got a whole new out look on my life. I realized a lot of things I took for granted were slipping by, and a lot of the things I thought were imporantant, really weren't. It's hard for me to say anything that will make you feel any better, just know that you have the support of people here, and you will get through this. Right now is the time to be there for the rest of your family... I know it sucks, and it is really sad, but you will move on. It does get easier, and the one good thing that always happens from a tragedy like this is your whole family and close friends will come together for each other... it really rekindles your idea of the human spirit. Best regards man, I'm wishing you all the best,

-Nick

 

[Shin Guile X]

Sol_BadGuy, I am truly sorry to hear that. Almost a year ago today I watched my Mother die in my arms. She died of Cancer that knowone knew she had. Nothing I can say will ease your pain but if you ever want to talk about it then feel free to pm me.

There is so much I can say about what is to come and all the emotions that you will be going through but as it has been said before, she will always be with you.

I don't believe in ghosts and all that but sometimes I swear to God that I can just feel her presence. I know that she looks over me and see's what I do.

And tell yourself this, if I can get threw this, I can do anything!

That was what kept me going. My Mother died in my arms. That has been or will be the hardest thing that I will ever go through. And if I can get threw that than I can do anything as well.

Again if there is anything I can do for you or you just want to talk lmk.

 

[dreamstationx]

Hey Sol_Badguy01... we never spoke before but I know what its like man as I lost my mother in late 1999 just before christmas. She died out of the blue, a fitness instructor that ran Slimming Clubs and was in great health then at 56yrs old, she collapsed one morning and died a few days later with the theory being " she was just one of those unexplanable cases that just happens...." so I have no answers for it... It does get easier though as some of the other chaps have said in previous posts. Talk anytime if you want...

 

[Shin Guile X]

Sorry about the double post.

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