Ok, I feel sick, Did I do the right thing? Was it so bad?

K_K

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okay first off you shoulda dropped girl b, as soon as you got chlymidia the first time. and second you should have kept building on the foundation you had on girl a, before girl b even rolled along. you've shot yourself in the foot, give up on both of em is all i can say to you.
 

aria

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Like pestilent said:

You've got balls to post this on a video game forum.

With that said, I'm going to go with it and hopefully give you some advice.

- Either turn Girl B into a "DO NOT FUCK" friend or dump her. Either way its bad news to keep going out with her in sexual/romantic way. Lay down new limits, and just be her friend. If she can't handle that, well tough shit for her: then be glad you don't have to deal with her.

MOST IMPORTANT
- Regardless of who you end up pursuing, do not, I repeat DO NOT conduct sexual activity with anybody until you finish your chlaymidia treatment. I used to teach HS Sex Ed for Planned Parenthood. I nearly had a heart attack when I read what happened. Dude, be glad -no, that's too light- THANK YOUR MAKER that you didn't catch anything worse! If you ever think you might go somewhere with a girl (I don't care if it is the 3rd day or whatever) -if you'd ever consider having sex -bring protection. Girls get horny out of their minds too, and when they do they are just as likely to "conveniently" forget about an STD as a stupid guy is. Anyway, just consider it a bad, but not awful lesson. Moving on:

- With Girl A: if she's nice, pursue her. If her boyfriend can't commit, well tough on him.

- As for the car incident with Girl A: I'll bet you she said "wait" because she wants to take it slow. Listen to me: take her out on dates, treat her well, at most hold her hand: DON'T TRY AND EAT/FUCK/WHATEVER HER! Just be cool, be nice. I'll bet you money that she knows enough about you and Girl B that she doesn't want to be like that slut, or treated in that way. Be patient with her (especially since you don't want to infect her). Let her build up the desire to jump you. You'll earn her respect and get a better relationship out of it. Of course, if she doesn't make a move for a while, you may want to ask.

- the bottom line is you're kinda in a bad reputation situation, but you're not irredeemable. Be careful. Dump B, heal yourself, no sex with anyone til you heal, and go after A with a lot more patience (and respect, since B showed none towards you -you were had).

I hope you read this, and I hope you take the advice.

Good luck,
Bobak
 

evil wasabi

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Originally posted by Ed:
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Dude, Ed, shut the fuck up. I'm going to lock your ass in a tight cage with Leslie if you don't start playing nice.

Can't you find a nice girl at a college or something? Fuck man, picking up co-workers is sad. These are the people you work with. As a man you gotta command their respect. That respect drops to nothing after they see you naked. It's like you removed a wall between you both. Not smart.
 

slerch666

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Originally posted by Anak:
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buster_broon

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Originally posted by EvilWasabi:
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agreed but i love your sig buddy

those cats are cool

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BlackSpy

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Originally posted by buster_broon:
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agreed but i love your sig buddy

those cats are cool

<img src="graemlins/lol.gif" border="0" alt="[LOL]" /> <img src="graemlins/lol.gif" border="0" alt="[LOL]" /> <img src="graemlins/lol.gif" border="0" alt="[LOL]" /> </strong><hr></blockquote>

They are cool indeed, what must his curtains be like though?
 
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