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I get the occasional pressure, but not too bad. I'm only 28 though. Most of my cousins got married over the past few years so I stick out more now. My friends don't say shit, but most of them aren't married either.
Tell them to fuck off and you'll do it when you're damn good and ready. Not before, and not after. Tell them it's on your timetable and not theirs.
My Dad was married @ 38, had me when he was 44, and things have worked out great for everybody.
maybe I should get a girlfriend just so I can have someone help out with rent.
She desperately wants grandchildren, and I don't have the heart to tell her that it'll never happen.
You're doing her no favors by letting her get her hopes up.
In the words of Robin Williams AKA Theodore Roosevelt,
"Sometimes it's better to tell a noble lie than to tell a hurtful truth"
That said, my wife is the oldest of her generation and is the first one to get married. I think she does get a few hints thrown at her, but then again all of her family are on the other side of the world.
In the words of Robin Williams AKA Theodore Roosevelt,
"Sometimes it's better to tell a noble lie than to tell a hurtful truth"
There is no such thing as a noble lie. Reminds me of another saying:
"The road to Hell is paved with good intentions."
and things have worked out great for everybody.
One piece of advice: if you do get married too early, be sure to take nude pictures of your wife. Assume she'll forget about them when she copies her stuff off the computer when you get divorced.