I hear you bro! Everyone wants something for nothing, or at least close to it. Those are the kind of deals you get from clueless ops or a wife that just divorced her gamer husband and took all of his stuff. Not from gamers or collectors on sites focused on what is being bought/sold. You get what you pay for, most of the time and if you want to get an expensive game, expect to pay an expensive price, or at least somewhat close to it depending on the sellers need for money at the time.
Offering the same price you see prior to the addition of shipping on some crappy website from a seller based in Korea/china, to a reputable US/UK/JP seller that has the game in hand with pictures of the tested cart you will actually receive + art, and wanting it shipped for that price, is just retarded. LOOKING AT YOU Kinneth!