I needed to see this. I'm in a similar situation right now.
But to answer the post. I've dated a married woman before. Never had sex with one though.
I knew and worked with the wife before she married her then boyfriend/babies father. 8 years later her husband got hired at my job for about 3 or 4 months. Until he quit because one of our co-workers threatened to beat him down. He was cheating on his wife with a girl we worked with, and was bragging about how he Hit it to everybody. Her cousin was said co-worker that threatened to bash him. I seen her a few months later, she said they were seperated. He lied to her, and said he got fired. I told her the truth, and we exchanged numbers.
A few months later I called her, and we started to talk and date. We never kissed, just hugged each other at the end of the date. She offered sex like twice, but I said not until your divorce is final, (which she said would take like 3-4 months). We ended up breaking up because we just were not compatible in a relationship.
A married woman on my job tempted me last year. She was having problems with her husband. I declined. Guys on my job was egging me on though. When I said "She's married." I got 'That don't mean shit.' From a couple of guys I worked with.
I was having sex with a girl for a few months who had just recently broken up with her live-together baby father. She had just moved back in with her mother. We stopped talking/seeing each other for a few months and I thought that that was that. Then, we bumped into each other at a convenience store. I was in the back looking at the ice cream, and she came up to me smiling. We exchanged numbers again, but this time the situation was worse. She had got back together with her daughter's father, and had gotten engaged. We still were having sex. She even wore the ring during our sessions. After one session, she said to me, 'After I get married can I still come see you?' I said, "No. It's bad enough we're doing this when your engaged!" We stopped talking/seeing each other for a few months again. Then one night I'm in my apartment, I get a phone call from her, and she says, in short, 'I need to see you.' I was gonna let her come through, but then I remember the whole engagement thing, and asked, "How was the wedding?" She told me, (in detail) how the wedding was, and after that I told her she couldn't come over. That was the last time I heard from her.
I'm in a situation now with an ex-girlfriend. I broke up with her for cheating. 5 months later I get a text from her saying how she's a new woman, and wants a second chance. We start talking again, and things seemed better this time. A few months go by, and one night I called her, and 3 minutes into the conversation she says that she's with her boyfriend. The guy she was with during the time we weren't together (or possibly the guy she was cheating with the first time we were together?). I played it cool at first, and ended the conversation gracefully. Then a few hours later I sent her an angry text. She text me back saying let's talk about it. I call her the next morning, and she says she didn't want to lie about her boyfriend. I said, "I'm not calling you anymore, I don't feel right doing that. You can call me." She said she still wants me to call her, and that she isn't serious about her current boyfriend. She still sends me text messages asking me to go out/do things for/with her. Trick Please!
These nutty chics like Love triangles. I guess it makes them feel special that 2 guys (or more) are competing for them. Love triangles are for teenagers! I don't play love triangles no more. I'm not a teenager no more. That's tv/movie drama. I'm too old now to have a low quality chic bring nonsense/drama into my life. Either do right by me, or stay out of my life. I've had guys on my job tell me worse stories about these nutty girls gone wild chics nowadays.
That show Cheaters has been on for many years now for a reason.