You ever fooled around with a married person?

SuperDeadite

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EEEEEEEEEW a pay per hour hotel. Imagine how fulla jizz the sheets are

You've clearly never seen a Japanese Love Hotel. No trip to Japan is complete without staying in one. Here's a link to my personal favorite.

The photo on the main page is the outdoor bath, most of the S-Class Rooms come with them. S-Class gives you a whole suite with a giant king sized wooden canopy bed, plus free champagne, condoms, and 8 channels of porn, only $150 for the whole night.

http://www.itoyasu.co.jp/palms/
 

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You've clearly never seen a Japanese Love Hotel. No trip to Japan is complete without staying in one. Here's a link to my personal favorite.

The photo on the main page is the outdoor bath, most of the S-Class Rooms come with them. S-Class gives you a whole suite with a giant king sized wooden canopy bed, plus free champagne, condoms, and 8 channels of porn, only $150 for the whole night.

http://www.itoyasu.co.jp/palms/

Wasn't hard rallying support for that when we end up in Japan haha. Hello Kitty themed rooms, ramen on demand and sex toys sent up? I mean that's just fucking great! WHY DON'T THEY HAVE THESE HERE!?

On topic, Hell no. If it was my girl with another guy I'd castrate him in the street.
 

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If it was my girl with another guy I'd castrate him in the street.
This is a mindset I doubt I will ever understand. I mean, if he raped her, sure. Of course. Maybe not castration, but something, preferably involving death.

But if you aren't married to a robot or one of Tasuke's dolls or something -- if you are married to an actual sentient person who thinks and has feelings and stuff -- then what's the deal? The girl chose to cheat on you. Just the idea that she would want to cheat on you is something you should want to know, because it means your relationship isn't working.

But is that her fault, or is the pairing just not meant to be? Why blame her for that? Do you think you are going to force her to love you, or maybe keep her away from other people so she never has any options other than you? How fucking pathetic is that? If she's not with you because she wants to be with you, then what's the point? If your girl decides to cheat on you with another guy, try to hang on to a scrap of dignity and move on. In a weird way you should be a bit thankful to know that she feels that way so you can stop wasting time on her.

Unless force or drugs or some kind of trickery was involved, violence is completely out of place in that situation. If you need some kind of consolation, take it from the fact that she'll never be happy with the new guy, either. Since their relationship (if that was even ever the point for them) was born out of cheating, they will from day one never be able to fully trust each other or build anything solid or lasting.

But rather than her cheating on you, would you prefer spending the rest of your life with someone who doesn't want to be with you, would rather be with someone else, but suffers in silence so you don't have to deal with that or go through the trouble of finding a new girlfriend? Again, pathetic. If the girl is not getting what she needs out of life being with you, be a man and let her go.


By the way, I'm not saying any of this specifically at you, lachlan. It's just the mindset in general that so many people seem to have that mystifies me. It's impossible for one person to keep a relationship going when the other person has already checked out.
 

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I agree with STK. The only way I'd ever be angry at the guy is if he was my friend or something.
 

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I agree with STK. The only way I'd ever be angry at the guy is if he was my friend or something.

word. not many times people have agreed with him as he's usually just out to wind people up. but i agree here as well. first of all i'd hope most people have the moral fiber to know that its wrong and that cheating/aiding in someone's goal of infidelity is not the smartest or best way to go about life. but were i to catch my girl in the act it would be a real simple thing for me. grab the PS3, my big green army canvas bag, pack up all my clothes. and book the next flight to texas. no "we can work it out" no "i'm gonna kill you and him" no, no. just pack and leave no questions or talking needed.
 

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word. not many times people have agreed with him as he's usually just out to wind people up. but i agree here as well. first of all i'd hope most people have the moral fiber to know that its wrong and that cheating/aiding in someone's goal of infidelity is not the smartest or best way to go about life. but were i to catch my girl in the act it would be a real simple thing for me. grab the PS3, my big green army canvas bag, pack up all my clothes. and book the next flight to texas. no "we can work it out" no "i'm gonna kill you and him" no, no. just pack and leave no questions or talking needed.

If it makes spend the sky-high prices for a last-second flight, you should at least get the most out of it by saying something cornball like "This country just isn't big enough for the two of us anymore."
 
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If it makes spend the sky-high prices for a last-second flight, you should at least get the most out of it by saying something cornball like "This country just isn't big enough for the two of us anymore."

Or "I guess it's time I take your sister up on that offer", then bolt with your stuff.
 

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I wholeheartedly agree with STK here also.

I also hate the term 'stealing' someones man or woman.
 

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If it makes spend the sky-high prices for a last-second flight, you should at least get the most out of it by saying something cornball like "This country just isn't big enough for the two of us anymore."

Or "I guess it's time I take your sister up on that offer", then bolt with your stuff.

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This is a mindset I doubt I will ever understand. I mean, if he raped her, sure. Of course. Maybe not castration, but something, preferably involving death.

But if you aren't married to a robot or one of Tasuke's dolls or something -- if you are married to an actual sentient person who thinks and has feelings and stuff -- then what's the deal? The girl chose to cheat on you. Just the idea that she would want to cheat on you is something you should want to know, because it means your relationship isn't working.

But is that her fault, or is the pairing just not meant to be? Why blame her for that? Do you think you are going to force her to love you, or maybe keep her away from other people so she never has any options other than you? How fucking pathetic is that? If she's not with you because she wants to be with you, then what's the point? If your girl decides to cheat on you with another guy, try to hang on to a scrap of dignity and move on. In a weird way you should be a bit thankful to know that she feels that way so you can stop wasting time on her.

Unless force or drugs or some kind of trickery was involved, violence is completely out of place in that situation. If you need some kind of consolation, take it from the fact that she'll never be happy with the new guy, either. Since their relationship (if that was even ever the point for them) was born out of cheating, they will from day one never be able to fully trust each other or build anything solid or lasting.

But rather than her cheating on you, would you prefer spending the rest of your life with someone who doesn't want to be with you, would rather be with someone else, but suffers in silence so you don't have to deal with that or go through the trouble of finding a new girlfriend? Again, pathetic. If the girl is not getting what she needs out of life being with you, be a man and let her go.


By the way, I'm not saying any of this specifically at you, lachlan. It's just the mindset in general that so many people seem to have that mystifies me. It's impossible for one person to keep a relationship going when the other person has already checked out.

nice post

i feel that this attitude partly follows from a primitive belief that women are somehow these helpless little bunny rabbits that are being preyed upon

be wary of women who overplay the victim routine, very dangerous and often indicative of an underlying psychosis
 

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No as that's just one line I won't cross when it comes to the opposite sex.
 

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I needed to see this. I'm in a similar situation right now.

But to answer the post. I've dated a married woman before. Never had sex with one though.
I knew and worked with the wife before she married her then boyfriend/babies father. 8 years later her husband got hired at my job for about 3 or 4 months. Until he quit because one of our co-workers threatened to beat him down. He was cheating on his wife with a girl we worked with, and was bragging about how he Hit it to everybody. Her cousin was said co-worker that threatened to bash him. I seen her a few months later, she said they were seperated. He lied to her, and said he got fired. I told her the truth, and we exchanged numbers.

A few months later I called her, and we started to talk and date. We never kissed, just hugged each other at the end of the date. She offered sex like twice, but I said not until your divorce is final, (which she said would take like 3-4 months). We ended up breaking up because we just were not compatible in a relationship.

A married woman on my job tempted me last year. She was having problems with her husband. I declined. Guys on my job was egging me on though. When I said "She's married." I got 'That don't mean shit.' From a couple of guys I worked with.

I was having sex with a girl for a few months who had just recently broken up with her live-together baby father. She had just moved back in with her mother. We stopped talking/seeing each other for a few months and I thought that that was that. Then, we bumped into each other at a convenience store. I was in the back looking at the ice cream, and she came up to me smiling. We exchanged numbers again, but this time the situation was worse. She had got back together with her daughter's father, and had gotten engaged. We still were having sex. She even wore the ring during our sessions. After one session, she said to me, 'After I get married can I still come see you?' I said, "No. It's bad enough we're doing this when your engaged!" We stopped talking/seeing each other for a few months again. Then one night I'm in my apartment, I get a phone call from her, and she says, in short, 'I need to see you.' I was gonna let her come through, but then I remember the whole engagement thing, and asked, "How was the wedding?" She told me, (in detail) how the wedding was, and after that I told her she couldn't come over. That was the last time I heard from her.

I'm in a situation now with an ex-girlfriend. I broke up with her for cheating. 5 months later I get a text from her saying how she's a new woman, and wants a second chance. We start talking again, and things seemed better this time. A few months go by, and one night I called her, and 3 minutes into the conversation she says that she's with her boyfriend. The guy she was with during the time we weren't together (or possibly the guy she was cheating with the first time we were together?). I played it cool at first, and ended the conversation gracefully. Then a few hours later I sent her an angry text. She text me back saying let's talk about it. I call her the next morning, and she says she didn't want to lie about her boyfriend. I said, "I'm not calling you anymore, I don't feel right doing that. You can call me." She said she still wants me to call her, and that she isn't serious about her current boyfriend. She still sends me text messages asking me to go out/do things for/with her. Trick Please!

These nutty chics like Love triangles. I guess it makes them feel special that 2 guys (or more) are competing for them. Love triangles are for teenagers! I don't play love triangles no more. I'm not a teenager no more. That's tv/movie drama. I'm too old now to have a low quality chic bring nonsense/drama into my life. Either do right by me, or stay out of my life. I've had guys on my job tell me worse stories about these nutty girls gone wild chics nowadays.

That show Cheaters has been on for many years now for a reason.
 

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I know I have like 10 posts here, so if people don't want to believe me then I really don't give a shit.

I was 17, she was 25, married, and had 2 kids. We met on a local chat BBS (this was in 1994, before the internet was what it is now, and people chatted online via local dial-up deals). We never fucked but she was coming over to my house a lot and we were making out and whatnot. She would lie to her husband and tell him that she was going out shopping, and he would watch the kids. This went on for a couple of months. Eventually I come to my senses and realize that what I am doing is wrong. My friend at the same time hooked up with another married chick from the same BBS (he was a year yougner than me though, so 16), and they were definitey fucking. So anyway I break it off with the chick for obvious reasons. She is all heartbroken because she was in love with me (again, I was 17 and she was 25, so obviously she was a little bit of a whacko). Somehow, her husband finds out. He is of course pissed but knows that his wife thinks she is in love with me, so he's trying to keep it cool and tells me to just never see her again, but then also tells me that if we had ever actually fucked, he would have killed us both. That was pretty heavy. So I never saw her again. Even more fucked up though is that my friend also never talked to me again because he was pissed at me for dumping this chick. I think he was using my situation as justification for his fucking the chick he was seeing. I dunno.

Anyway, I learned my lesson at a young age. NO WAY I would even mess with a married chick again. I am now married myself, so I guess I can better imagine what it would feel like to be on the wrong end of that.

Chris
 
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